Ok cool.
Just a small update after driving around for a little while.
1: shifter works for reverse, Neutral and drive. lights for R/N work 100%. works in all eco/com/sport and sport+
when in D mode, (all the way right) the lights do not work and while using manual shift (up and down by hand), the gear displays on the cluster, (and the lights lightup on shifter), the gear box however does not actually shift, when using the paddles, all perfect, and lights light up on shifter.
however, if in drive and i use the paddles then imeadiatly use the shifter (up or down), then the gearbox will shift.
I know that the x5m shifter does not have a M/S mode (just a D mode, even though its the same gearbox), then the GWS (shifter module) does not "know " what mode to be in M or S, i think its defaulting to M (but not enough to tell the system).
So, i was thinking if i can code the car to only have D mode ( and turn off/disable M/S) modes then I suspect that the GWS will start working 100%.
if anyone had the deafult coding for the 2014-2017 x5m icm and transmission coding, then I think we might be able to crack it.
any help would be great.
If my car did not have SAT (2TB), i suspect that it would have been plug and play!!